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Flay
Lafiel, you brought up all the old discussions. If you want to discuss do so, don't lock and ban.

I have to say, your handling of this situation lacks people skills.

Emmie has every right to tell anyone she has had bad experiences with OoR, as long as they are true. As a result of what happened she no longer wants to be part of any guild other than her own.

What you need to understand as well is that no guild will ever have a spotless record for more than a very short time, no matter how well run it is. The way to deal with problems is not sweeping them under the rug. But rather to be open with people. If someone questions you about anything brought up by either Emmie or my self, tell them that the current structure is not the same. As I've already said, I do make a point to mention that this all was some time ago - and that I don't know what you are like now, since this is the first communication I have had with any OoR member since late Feb I think (talked to Wraak and Svend briefly after I left).

OoR has a history, you cannot change that. If you want to escape history you can always recreate guild everytime something unpleasant happens(sarcasm, I'm not suggesting you do, for those that need it spelt out). You were left with quite a mess, I can feel for you - having old stuff pop up like this I'm sure is annyoing, especially when you only have a minor relation to it all. -BUT the name Order of Reclamation has a history, good and bad - you can't change that, much as you might wish to.

The reason you have not heard about this in some time from us, is that both Emmie and I had decided to take some time off from the game, returning in April. I don't particularly enjoy thinking back on what happened to the guild in January and February, I never saw March. So I try to avoid it.

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For as I see it you have no idear how the guild works today what we are up to. All u know is what lvls we are and what plots we own how many members and so on. But in the end it tells you none about us.


We don't really care, we are not out to get you, jealous envious or anything - we do quite well on our own.

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The truth? what u see as the truth is history for more then 3 months now and under all of this time you have not sayed a thing about the guild that I know of. But not long after I got hold of Derdun's plot you start to talk about us.


What exactly are you implying? And what nerve to close the thread after mentioning it, without finishing.

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Btw I see it as "crap" when sameone start to talk about us like u know us inside out.


Now when did either of us ever do that? Let's see some proof here. I don't like accusations like this thrown around with no basis.

There is no conspiracy against you.

As far as personal attacks, I think I've seen enough to make my own decisions.


My apologies Claws, I remember Svend speaking about rushing you to officerhood. Somewhere I must have confused Azoun's member vote with you as officer.

I have no beef with any of you. I was burnt by OoR once, I'm not holding a grudge against you - but I don't forget either. As for what I've seen here today, I'll just keep that to my self, or I'll recieve an IP ban like a couple others did for speaking their mind. Yay censorship!
Lafiel
First of all the first post was for emmie not for you so that you got mixed up in all of this is not the best thing that happen...

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Lafiel, you brought up all the old discussions. If you want to discuss do so, don't lock and ban.

I dit not bring up any old discussions. All I sayed that alot has changed with in the guild after svend/aevorn left.

I will not defend that I closed 4 Topic's. Emmie whent over the line thats why she was banned again, I dit give her a waring not to attack any ppl but she dit.

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I have to say, your handling of this situation lacks people skills

I tryed to tell her nice not talk about us, she has no idear how we work today and even if she is talking about 3 months or more ago why bring it up now again? Long after the ppl that had same thing todo with her leaving the guild left the game?

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Emmie has every right to tell anyone she has had bad experiences with OoR, as long as they are true. As a result of what happened she no longer wants to be part of any guild other than her own.

In one way yes but then she has to say it was when she was part of the guild and that she left the guild that date (end of Feb I think it was), if she talks like that she is still part or left only days ago then she has no right to talk bad about us.

Like we sayed so many times now the guild has changed (with this I dont mean any of the problems emmie dit see for the problems she had none one else of had), there are more new ppl in the guild today then the old guard.
And why start to back talk us after so long time even if both of you have not bin in game?

Last of all run your guild like you and emmie like (if you have one) and leave OoR alone we have not dont you/emmie any thing and will not do so.
Flay
When you attack my friends, you attack me.

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I dit not bring up any old discussions.


Umm, you did - unfortunately I can't access it since you decided to delete it all.

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even if she is talking about 3 months or more ago why bring it up now again?


Maybe because it still bothers her? Maybe she hasn't stopped talking about it? Just now it has reached you apparently.

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In one way yes but then she has to say it was when she was part of the guild and that she left the guild that date (end of Feb I think it was), if she talks like that she is still part or left only days ago then she has no right to talk bad about us.


Let me again ask you for some proof or just an example. I have never heard her claim it happened recently.

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Like we sayed so many times now the guild has changed (with this I dont mean any of the problems emmie dit see for the problems she had none one else of had),


That is untrue, you may not have seen or maybe you've chosen to forget - but she was not the only one who had concerns about levels and attitudes within the guild.

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And why start to back talk us after so long time even if both of you have not bin in game?


We are not backtalking you, but the old OoR, as I have repeated time and time again.
AeVorn
Emmie had a falling out with me and Svend, which ended with her leaving the guild. I take the full responsibility for my part in the matter.

Since then the leadership of the guild has changed and as long as Emmie clearly states that she had problems with the old leadership, I have no problem with her actions. I would however be troubled by her laying the responsibility for past actions at the feet of the current leadership.
BlackDeath
Posted: Jun 30 2004, 05:28 PM
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You're a bit too late A wink.gif
AeVorn
I guess I was quite late on this issue. However I'd hate not to speak up for the rest of the guild. In no manner should any of you bear the blame for things I was responsible for.
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